Don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff.- George Carlin Avoid Chinese Restaurants with 'garden' in their name, hotels with 'arms' in their name and movies with a poster saying 'starring Julia Roberts' (part of a list my uncle keeps adding to) You can't have everything. Where would you put it? -Steven Wright On a more serious note: "Success is the result of making good decisions. Making good decisions is the result of experience. Experience is the result of making bad decisions. - some self help tape I listened to years ago. A long way to say 'learn from your mistakes'. Life is never fair. On rare occasions, it's not fair in your favour. - my dad.