TomBrokaw
Tele-Holic
Oh, agreed. Control is something I need to work on, and while, yes, everyone SHOULD post on the internet the way I think they should, I realize that's never going to happen.You know, I've posted some pretty silly answers to this thread, because it was actually begging for them!I will tell you this, trying to control what others do, is an exasperating endeavor. I think you will need to invest a LOT of time and money to make even a tiny difference in the way people do things. Having a reaction to what OTHER people do is pretty much time well wasted. I ran a tractor repair facility for three and a half years, just getting the crew all going in somewhat the same direction required a monumental amount of resolve. and I was the BOSS!
I do things the way I do because it makes the most sense to me. If others do things in a way that doesn't make sense to me, I have two options.
1. I can tell them why my way is better and that they should do it my way. This has been super effective and I have fixed all the world's problems in less than 18 months.
2. I can ask why they do it their way, which helps me accept my lack of control and, possibly gain a new tool/insight/perspective