Skyhook
Friend of Leo's
I started at 11.
Here's the guitar. Still with me after numerous mods and re-paints.
Here's the guitar. Still with me after numerous mods and re-paints.
I recall having a problem learning barre chords like F, and a classmate suggested putting classical nylon strings or Martin Silk & Steel strings on the guitar for a while and then switch back to steel strings, which is what I did. It made learning barre chords less frustrating.When I was learning on it I got so frustrated with the F chord
I had one summers worth of lessons when I was 7 or 8, but the teacher was horrible and I quit with the deeply held belief that I was uniquely incapable of playing instruments. I truly believed I had something about my coordination or thinking process that could never be overcome, and so contented myself to be a super-fan. At 18 mt first girlfriend suggested I learn to play. I tried a course at the local JC and failed at their material, but figured out a WHO song and a AC/DC tune on my own. That same GF knew a fellow in a local band and had her brother introduce us- his name was Jaime and he played bass for a band called Headface. Jaime bid me come around to one of their practices, and after asking if I’d ever played bass went ahead and taught me some fundamentals. As it happened he noted I had natural sense of time/good groove and a fairly accurate ear for melody, which he said were great blessings. I soon after that got a used Ibanez RIC copy and began learning bass lines from records- Cream, Death Angel, Judas Priest, Sabbath and Motörhead- I was HOOKED ! I played bass from 18 to 24, then shifted focus to guitar. It’s been an enduring obsession ever since. I quit playing twice- each time for about a year, but always came back to it- eventually developing my singing as well. Over the years I decided to focus on songwriting, and I consider myself to be a songwriter who plays guitar and bass- there are a million players who can shred in ways I haven’t been able to, but I feel confident that my voice as a writer is my strength, and writing songs is where I find the most meaning and satisfaction…Four of these six are my compositionsBy "when" I mean either
1) When you really started playing regularly with drive and passion
or
2) When you became inspired to pick up the guitar, even if it took a while to get one. I.e., I did yard work for almost a year before I came up with the cash to buy one, but I was otherwise driven to get one at that point.
You'll notice it's pretty specific in a specific decade, and that's because I suspect that this is where most of the entries will hit. Let me know if you disagree!
Thanks for the deep perspective, It helps to know that we are not alone.I like to think I am speaking for most everyone here, but we all seem to face some form of "impostor syndrome" when it comes to guitar. We all say "I wish I could be better" or "I wish I had practiced more" or "I wish I had started earlier" or "I wish I had known what I know now back when I first started". It's the nature of the beast when it comes to something that can't be measured or quantified in hard numbers. We all tell ourselves "it's not a contest" but we all fall into that same trap and same series of self-deprecation scripts when we see or hear someone that can do something with great skill that we can't yet do.
I've struggled with this, you've struggled with this, we've all struggled with this. Again, it's not a contest. It's not about who's great and who's not. It's all about doing what gives us joy and happiness.
I regularly tell myself the same stuff I wrote above and yet I still fall into the same traps I know I should avoid. Something something "the dark side of being an artist" something.