Things You Identify Yourself With - Identity Crisis?

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Over the last couple of years, there have been a number of "identity items" that I have challenged and changed. My daughter jokes that I am having an identity crisis. I'm not, but I think I am "softening" on some issues. Here are some examples, all of which have come about in the last 5 years or so.

Maple Fretboards. I have had a Strat with a pao ferro fretboard since the early 90s. When I was looking to buy a Tele back in 2014, I only wanted a maple fretboard. I liked the look better, this was how a traditional Tele was, so I became a maple fretboard guy. I (internally) dismissed any guitar that did not have a maple fretboard. I ended up buying a 50s Baja.

After a few years, I really wanted something a bit different. I started looking at the American Professional line, specifically the candy apple red one with the maple fretboard. I played a used one, but it was too much money. A bit later, I played an AP-II, the mercury (reverse grey burst) with the rosewood fretboard. Boy, did that feel nice! I ended up buying an AP-II Tele in Dark Night with rosewood. I spent some time before my purchase wishing for a dark night with maple, but after playing the mercury AP-II, I pulled the trigger. I really like the feel of the rosewood. I still need to put the Baja up for sale. I now prefer rosewood - it is not an "identity", I just prefer it.

I thought I was an 11s guy. I now use 9s. My Baja does not like 9s - it works better with 10s, so that is what it has. It is funny how some guitars just want a certain gauge, regardless of what you like best.

Last year, I bought a new car. I used to identify myself as "they guy who only drives a manual, they guy who only uses analog gauges, the guy who does not rely on tech." Well, since I got a fairly nice car, guess what? I have a DSG gearbox, digital gauges including a digital numeric speedometer and a digital dial speedo, Android Carplay, traction and stability control, and a bunch of other stuff. I really like it - and I find that I don't miss the manual transmission (probably since the DSG feels very similar?). The Android CarPlay is brilliant, as I can put Waze on my main display in the center console. I always swore that HVAC systems should be three knobs only, but the new climate control system with three zones just works well.

I used to think I was a Fender Medium / punched pick guy. Blue Chip picks have convinced me otherwise. I tried a whole bunch of picks before I came to this conclusion. It was fun, and fairly inexpensive to try a bunch. Lockdown projects, amIright?

I used to think I was a Fender-only guy. Well, I have my eye on a Reverend Kingbolt. The Kingbolt has humbuckers! I am a single coil guy! Well, I prefer a brighter pickup, and the railhammer pickups in the Kingbolt are fairly bright, so maybe I did hold fast on to that one. I probably will not buy another guitar though, so this may be moot. The fretboard radius is a bit flatter than I prefer, but OMG is the Kingbolt a real looker!

Maybe it is good to challenge your preconceived notions. Maybe this is a late mid-life crisis. Maybe I am just relaxing with age. I still have some strong opinion about other things - like desktop OSs - but I feel I've grown. :lol:
 

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We're totally allowed to change our minds, alter our world view (hopefully for the better) and adjust our biases based on personal experience, wants, and needs. An individual's perceptions are their reality.

Anyone that tells you you're wrong for doing so can go pound sand :cool:
 

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I thought I was an 11s guy. I now use 9s. My Baja does not like 9s - it works better with 10s, so that is what it has. It is funny how some guitars just want a certain gauge, regardless of what you like best.
Guitars are like rifles. As a handloader, I recognize that two rifles with consecutive serial numbers in the same caliber that came off the line the same day will perform better with different loads. Fact of life.
Last year, I bought a new car. I used to identify myself as "they guy who only drives a manual, they guy who only uses analog gauges, the guy who does not rely on tech." Well, since I got a fairly nice car, guess what? I have a DSG gearbox, digital gauges including a digital numeric speedometer and a digital dial speedo, Android Carplay, traction and stability control, and a bunch of other stuff. I really like it - and I find that I don't miss the manual transmission (probably since the DSG feels very similar?). The Android CarPlay is brilliant, as I can put Waze on my main display in the center console. I always swore that HVAC systems should be three knobs only, but the new climate control system with three zones just works well.
My Colorado has heated seats - which I initially scoffed at. Now I can't do without them!
And hands-free cellphone ... best thing since pay at the pump gas!
I used to think I was a Fender Medium / punched pick guy. Blue Chip picks have convinced me otherwise. I tried a whole bunch of picks before I came to this conclusion. It was fun, and fairly inexpensive to try a bunch. Lockdown projects, amIright?
Every guitar player should do a "journey of discovery" @ picks.
I did mine about a year back and it's been a game changer.
I was a Fender medium guy forever - now I use these:
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I used to think I was a Fender-only guy. Well, I have my eye on a Reverend Kingbolt. The Kingbolt has humbuckers! I am a single coil guy! Well, I prefer a brighter pickup, and the railhammer pickups in the Kingbolt are fairly bright, so maybe I did hold fast on to that one. I probably will not buy another guitar though, so this may be moot. The fretboard radius is a bit flatter than I prefer, but OMG is the Kingbolt a real looker!
Reverend is on my GAS list as well.
Very well made instruments!
I have discovered the joys of P90s, and I now own several guitars with them.
Lots more rock n roll to the ounce.
Use tone knob like an OD box.
Yahoo!!!
Maybe it is good to challenge your preconceived notions. Maybe this is a late mid-life crisis. Maybe I am just relaxing with age. I still have some strong opinion about other things - like desktop OSs - but I feel I've grown. :lol:
Old dogs like us need to be open to new tricks.
You're not the Lone Ranger (remember him?)!🤠
 

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I’ve changed direction on a lot of things in recent years. Most notably my extreme dislike of EL84 based amplifiers. I now gig two of them and love them. I never thought I would own a Tele with a rosewood fretboard, now I have two of them. They also both sport a pair of humbuckers, which I also thought I would never do on a Tele.

I never thought I would do a strat with a maple board again, tried it many times, never really cared for it as much as rosewood on a strat. I don’t currently have a strat, but I have a PRS Silver Sky with a maple board and I freakin love it.

My whole life I’ve been a Jazz Bass guy. Never liked P basses. Loved the look, could never get a good sound out of one, and really didn’t care for the larger neck. Now I have a G&L SB-2. Jazz style neck, P/J setup, but I don’t even use the J pickup. It’s off 100% of the time. Best of both worlds. This bass punches so hard. It’s just huge sounding.

Some things never change, though. I still hate sunburst. 🤣
 

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Guitars are like rifles. As a handloader, I recognize that two rifles with consecutive serial numbers in the same caliber that came off the line the same day will perform better with different loads. Fact of life.
My guitars sound better when other people play them. And your guitars would sound worse when I play them. Fact.
 

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I spent many years connecting my identity to being an artist; a recording artist. A professional musician.

I suppose that is fine in and of itself but I adopted and internalized the myth that one must suffer and bleed for their art. And I did.

I’m younger than that now and have become much happier overall.

I am a guitar player and a student of the instrument again. And that’s alright, mama. That’s alright with me.
 

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We're totally allowed to change our minds, alter our world view (hopefully for the better) and adjust our biases based on personal experience, wants, and needs. An individual's perceptions are their reality.

Anyone that tells you you're wrong for doing so can go pound sand :cool:

You just told TDPRI John to pound sand
 

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Maybe it is good to challenge your preconceived notions. Maybe this is a late mid-life crisis. Maybe I am just relaxing with age. I still have some strong opinion about other things - like desktop OSs - but I feel I've grown. :lol:

The world would be a much-better place if people would quit getting their identities wrapped up in things or ideas.
 

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Someday, I'm going to own a strat.

I don't really want one for any practical or technical reason, and I've never been influenced by anyone else who plays them.

99.8 percent of them hold little-to-zero aesthetic appeal for me.....except one.

On the rare occasion that I see a gloss, clear-finished, ash-bodied strat with a maple fretboard and red tort pickguard, I want to buy it...as long as it's not a bajillion bucks that is. Squire level is ok, mainly because at my playing skill level, anything more would just be a waste.
 

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We all soften as we age, in more ways than one. Mostly I think it because we become more humble, as it gradually dawns on us how little we really know. I knew the most when I was about 19 years old, and I have known less and less every year since.

+1, but I feel I compensate by being less flexible in my views, even if I know less.
 
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