This is a fraught and loaded topic. Start with the volumes you play when you don't use headphones. If you are in the 65-75 dB range, forget about an amp with a 10-12" speaker over 1w, especially a tube amp, UNLESS you are happy very clean. Realistically with that type of speaker you will need the ability to access a fraction of a watt and have a good master, or you'll get up over 80 dB real quick.
The best solution I've tried (bar none) for home is the Boss Waza Air headphone amp. Most immersive and realistic to live loud tone and feel for me.
For non-headphone practice, at one point I had a VHTD50 head, a really nice attenuator (Toneking) and a closed 212. If I adjusted everything JUST right I could get a really, really nice home tone and feel. But it was hard to stay under 75 dB even there (really loud in a home, actually). On a lark I compared it to my MicroCube and my THR - the tone and feel really weren't much different, TBH. One rig cost at least $1500 and took up a bunch of room. One cost under $200. And didn't require the magic combination of elements coming together with any deviation making everything fall apart. Guess which I kept . . .
The best solution I've tried (bar none) for home is the Boss Waza Air headphone amp. Most immersive and realistic to live loud tone and feel for me.
For non-headphone practice, at one point I had a VHTD50 head, a really nice attenuator (Toneking) and a closed 212. If I adjusted everything JUST right I could get a really, really nice home tone and feel. But it was hard to stay under 75 dB even there (really loud in a home, actually). On a lark I compared it to my MicroCube and my THR - the tone and feel really weren't much different, TBH. One rig cost at least $1500 and took up a bunch of room. One cost under $200. And didn't require the magic combination of elements coming together with any deviation making everything fall apart. Guess which I kept . . .