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How? I can't make it work. I either focus on trying to sing and my playing goes out the window or focus on my playing and can't sing. How can I break through?
Anyone that says it's easy has been doing it for a while.
It's certainly not easy when first starting out, because it's exactly like rubbing your stomach while patting the top of your head: the more you practice, the easier it gets.
After years of doing it, I can play guitar and sing well enough. But play bass and sing? Impossible!
The reason it's impossible is because I have not done much of that at all. There's always so much more to learn.
Pick a few favorite three-chord tunes and practice them slowly. Use a metronome. If you mess up, it is critical that you don't stop and start the song over; instead, gut right through the goof-up and get yourself back on track. This technique will help you improve more quickly. As you get better at singing on pitch while strumming or fingerpicking, increase the speed on the metronome by about 10 BPM and try again. Continue this method until you're up to speed.
You have to have your guitar parts down pat!