Rant - Have people forgotten live gig etiquette?

eclecticsynergy

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I wouldn't blame it on the pandemic. I noticed a change in behaviour to some extent considering half the audience putting up their smartphones and recording an entire gig. But that was years before the pandemic.
Let's face it: there is (and always was) a certain amount of stupid people running around.
People tend to request songs without the slightest connection to the setlist they've been listened to for the past hour ("Do you play some Kylie Minogue?" became a running gag in our band).
If that gets out of hand, it's probably the wrong band at the wrong venue. Or you were booked at the annual D-bag-Convention....

What's worse is when the event is being recorded professionally and sold as a pre-order at the event. They still hold their phones up the entire time. It happened when I saw Kenny Wayne Shepherd this past February. I paid for a Blu ray so I sat there and enjoyed the show. Yes, I took my phone out and took 1 or 2 pics at the beginning of a few songs. And I recorded 1 song specifically. But other than that, my phone was in my pocket.

The blu ray beat anything I could've recorded. It's an incredible show.
 

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If we are getting a lot of requests or suggestions. I will usually make this announcement:

“We will accept any request written on a $20 bill. We will *play* that request if it’s written on a $50 bill. We will play it *right* if it’s written on a $100 bill.”
If/when the audience laughs (they usually do), I add, “We are not joking.”
It usually weeds out the idiots.

I’ve politely told people to get away from the stage when they approach drunk or “talky”—usually the second time.

If they insist on interrupting, I’ll just turn my guitar up louder and mime, “I can’t hear you!”
 

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A long story short...

I played my last gig about a year ago. We played to a half empty bar where the patrons neither listened to us nor spoke to one another. They all simply stood there thumbing through their iphones. It was like a scene from the Twilight Zone.

After 40 years of gigging, I decided that night was my last.
 

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Maybe some have forgotten, but many never knew to begin with.

The "standing dancers" in the audience are the worst, just for the record.
 

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If you’re getting paid, it’s a job. Sorry lady but this is my job and you cannot interrupt my job.
 

getbent

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I experienced all of this well before the pando. At a bar where we used to be the house band, we went for a drink and put some music on the jukebox (which you do with an app) and someone 'over voted' our song (or whatever) so, we were like 'what?' and we discovered that we could (through finance) control the jukebox. I basically played what I wanted for about 40 minutes then we left.

We walked by the same place on a sunday and a band was trying to play, but kept getting interrupted DURING songs. We stayed 3 songs. The band was not great either, but maybe they were spooked.

I found this very loony singer songwriter that I may do a band with, just to see how it all goes... but, the world changed and it ain't coming back.
 

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How many TDPRI'ers does it take to change a light bulb?



1000. One to change the bulb and 999 to talk about how good the old one was.
 

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I think it's smartphones much more than the pandemic. Concert behavior has been a disaster since then, in both attention and those that are paying attention are idiots recording a video that no one will ever care to look at, including themselves. We face the same issues at gigs as you describe, including venues keeping TVs on, even one's right behind the band. I literally see people watching shopping shows with no sound while a good band (not necessarily us, lol) is playing.

In a nutshell, active listening is a lost skill. Screen addiction.

Someone is always listening though, play for them.
 
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