...and holy crap I am not adjusting well. Neither is my cat. I have had some fun with the kids. It's nice to be in a house, not an apartment. It's nice to be with my future wife. The troubles are the cats aren't blending well. My kitty, the oldest and the one most used to being alone, established dominance over the younger male cat. He failed to do so with the female. He seems to be afraid of her. So my cat, his food, and his litter box, are holed up in our bedroom, maybe forever. As for me, I haven't lived with anyone for 15 years. It's been tough getting used to noise and people needing my attention all the time. I know I will learn to cope, and this new life will be far more rewarding than my old one. It's just been a rough month.