Mom and Dad's cooking in the 60s and 70s

Matt Sarad

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I don't remember the first 10 years. Food was always good and there was plenty. Our family of six sat at a round table in the kitchen.
It's when we moved from the city to the farm north of Bakersfield that I began to truly appreciate my parent's culinary skills.

Mom would broil thin pork chops, put them in a pan with tomato soup and finish them in the oven. Broiled shoulder lamb chops were put on toast to soak up the juice. Pot roast in the electric skillet with potatoes , onions and carrots were a biweekly meal. Her Greek stew? Beef in chunks cooked with the onions, potatoes, and carrots with cinnamon and finished with melted Gouda cheese was rare bit wonderful. She loved a Prime Rib perfectly done. Her Thanksgiving turkey was generally to dry. That's when I switched from the breast to the drum drum stick.
A Christmas Goose as far better.
My brother just reminded me of cube steak, cooked almost like chicken fried steak. Her meatloaf was something I never was a fan of, bit it was filling.
Who remembers lime green jello with pear halves? Mom would make a Bing cherry jello using Cragmont cherry cola.
She never baked from scratch, rather she would get the coffee cakes and cinnamon rolls for Sunday morning out of the icebox( She was born in Mattoon, Illinois in 1926.)
Many of her recipes came from Sunset magazine.
Her Spanakopita, the Greek spinach pie with eggs, feta cheese, dill, onions, garlic with top and bottom layers of Phyllo dough was heavenly. One year the neighbor offered Mom her pick of a freshly slaughtered steer. She chose the liver and tongue. Many guys my age, late 60s, never seemed to like liver and onions.A fresh liver was the key. I loved it. She did wonders with tongue.
Rather than thin sliced with oil and garlic like the Basque restaurants served, she cut it into 2 inch chunks. I don't remember how it was cooked, but it was the best I've ever had. Donuts, cookies, Strawberry rhubarb, cherry, chocolate, and lemon meringue pics came from Smiths bakery, still going strong from 1948. The maple bars and cinnamon rolls were my first choices.

My Dad was the King of the grill. Perfect medium rare steaks and the best burger I ever had one Saturday in the mid 70s are juicy in my memory.
He loved to show off his crown roast of pork once a Winter. Succulent chops, juicy, crispy fat with mashed potatoes, green beans, carrots and an Iceberg lettuce salad with Wishbone Russian dressing...
We made ice cream all summer long with fresh peaches or berries growing in the back yard.

Our local bakery, Golden Crust, was always ready for sandwiches made with Oscar Mayer cold cuts of Bologna, Olive Loaf, Cotto Salami, Chopped Ham, and Dad's favorite, Braunschweiger. Since he liked Miracle Whip,we never had Mayonnaise.
When Dad was gone out of town for work, we kids would watch TV with hamburgers and fries from Foster's Freeze or A and W or a Swansons TV dinner. I fondly remember the Turkey and roast beef.

We would go to dinner for Mexican or Chinese food,always in the same places: the Mexicali or the Rice Bowl, both still in business after 70+ years.

Mom entered Dad into a cooking contest. He concocted Cactus Burger Wellington which won first prize. Fresh nopales from the farm between two seasoned patties, wrapped in dough and baked to a golden brown. Clever and delicious.

Looking back on it, there wasn't a lot of variety, but I miss those days.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and keep picking.
 
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bgmacaw

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You were lucky. My Mom could not cook successfully even if she followed Good Housekeeping or Betty Crocker recipes.

But, she should have been able to figure it out. I mean, what's so hard about following these classic 70's recipes?

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We had 6 kids in our family too. I was the only one who ever showed up late for dinner. I would be out at the playground playing-baseball, basketball, tennis, football, swimming....
My mom had the job of having dinner on the table every night at 5:00, when my dad came home from work. She did a great job. Lots of variety and very tasty too. But, it was my dad who really shined in the kitchen and grilling. I think it was because he cooked when he wanted, what he wanted, and really enjoyed doing it. It was always a treat when he fixed breakfast, lunch, or dinner.
 

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Mom was a very good cook and loved to try new things. If the meal wasn’t up to par our comments were “interesting” or “different”. We were taught never to slam someone for trying. I believe less than 2% of her meals were ”interesting”

Dad was a master on the grill. Only once do I remember him messing up. We built and installed a brick fire pit with natural gas. The regulator was not setup for a gas grill, as I remember. The steaks were very, very well done. Burgers and dogs took no time but they weren’t burned.

A gas guy came out and they never could get it to work like it should. This was back I’m ‘66-‘67. The gas line was disconnected, capped and the grill was never used again.

After dad died and mom sold the house, the new owners asked about the gas grill. Mom said it didn’t work but pointed to the old 55 gallon drum converted to a charcoal grill, smiled and said, “But that will grill anything!”. And it would.

I learned a lot about cooking and grilling watching them
 

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I was very lucky.
Mom was a great cook, and Dad loved to grille steaks.
Our family of six ate very well.
My sisters and I loved to eat, and our parents were only too happy to feed us.
Lots of common, but delicious stuff.
There was always lots of fresh fruit, too!
 

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My mom was a superb cook. She was the oldest of 8 kids, half Italian/half Portuguese, and learned the Southern European techniques of those two cultures from her female relatives. To this day those are my comfort foods. My dad couldn’t boil water. He’s Irish, but was born in London. I learned a lot from my mom, by just hanging around the kitchen. I had to: whenever my mom went to the hospital to have another baby - which was frequently, I’m the oldest of 7 kids - if I didn’t cook, we didn’t eat. I only made simple things, but it was enough to get us by until she was back on her feet. I’m a much better cook now, and I still hear her voice in my ear sometimes when I’m using little tricks she taught me. Mom was cool - she was teaching me stuff that went back a long time in her ancestry without making it seem like I was being taught.
Love you, Ma.
 

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The one time I remember my dad cooking, I ended up barfin’ all over the place. Luckily, I opened the car door in time or he would have boxed my ears.
 

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My full-blooded cajun mom was a very good cook. She's still alive, but in the later stages of dementia. Her and my dad got together around 1960. In 1966 they moved from Port Arthur, Texas, where my mom grew up, to North Carolina, where my dad was from. 20 years later, we visited North Carolina and all the old timers did was talk about my mom's Thanksgiving dinner in 1966.
 

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Everything we got was fried or baked. Mom made good meatloaf and spaghetti sauce, but that was about it. Dad fried everything in shallow oil in a pan, and it was nasty. Eggplant, liver and onions (gag), squash, Spam, fish.
 

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When I was little, my grandparents lived next door, and we had about an acre under cultivation behind the two houses and kept a chicken coop. An apple tree, and a fig tree IIRC. I think we ate over at their house as much as we ate at home. So lots of fresh produce, and home-canned stuff. Both my mom and grandmother made great biscuits, which accompanied just about everything lol.

I probably remember my favorites the most. Fried fish, hushpuppies, and fried okra being at the top of the list. Grandfather built a BBQ pit and made Brunswick stew. Sunday dinner (served around 1pm) was usually fried chicken, biscuits and cream gravy, green beans over cooked just the way my grandfather wanted, squash, and strawberry shortcake for dessert.

My dad didn’t cook as began to suffer from a neurological disease. But he had served in Okinawa, and acquired some adventurous tastes. So I ate fried ants at a tender age (he bought them in a tin, no way he was going to talk the ladies into cooking ants).

My mom had to work, so cooking was secondary task. Things got a little simpler and she would even cheat too. When “tv dinners” got popular we had them about once a week. But for big occasions she could still pull off big meals just as good as her mom.

When I went to college I realized I’d better learn to cook. Too poor to eat out all the time. And by about 75 I was catching a lot of saltwater fish. My grandmother by then lived about 120 miles from my school. I drove up there and said “I gotta learn how to fry fish, make hushpuppies, make biscuits, etc”.
She was more than happy to oblige and I’ve been doing it ever since.
 




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