Hello to anyone who reads this. I don't post a crazy amount here - I'm relatively new and a bit transient on the forum, but I feel like a part of this community. Tonight my wife of almost 10 years told me that she's having doubts about our marriage. She is a wonderful person, and we've had a pretty good marriage. No big blowouts, we get along, we have one 4-year-old boy we both adore. She totally caught me off guard when she told me, she wanted to be honest. I'm at a loss. I'm not angry with her, she hasn't strayed from our marriage, she's just confused I guess? We haven't gone in great detail as she just told me tonight. I thought it was strange that we've been so excited about purchasing our first home this summer but lately, she has cooled on that big time. I thought maybe she was just too busy to think about house hunting (she just started her first year teaching) Has anyone gone through anything like this? I'm grateful for her honesty, and I don't even know what it means, but I'm heartbroken. I know this is ridiculous but I don't even know who to turn to at this point. I don't want to alarm family because maybe we work it out? But I'm not sure I can keep it to myself? I need my sanity as I'm a teacher and have students who depend on me, ugh. I'm not even sure what I'm typing at this point. Thank you to everyone who bothers to read this. I know life works itself out, and I'll be ok. I just feel like I'm on the verge of losing something.