I am reading a novel, but I haven't finished it yet. Half way through the book a character brought up this interesting opinion on love: "Trying to talk sense to a man or woman in love is useless. But love doesn't make sense. Love is an emotion." I couldn't agree more. I will say when you are still in love, you are more likely to ignore your partner's flaws. It only makes sense after the break up. In this case, let me share with you my friend's situation. She has broken up with the same boyfriend for the 4th time , but still sleeps at his place now and again. The chance is slim that I can talk her out of doing this again. She told me the boyfriend would not have time to see another girl so he felt OK for her to stay at his place. I can see that she doesn't want to let go of the boyfriend, but I don't understand why he is doing this to her. I know some of you may think it's her own business and I shouldn't comment on it. But when it comes to my best friend, I don't want to see her get hurt. Do you have any experience to share with us? Any wise advice is also welcomed.