Lost my mom this week

Discussion in 'Bad Dog Cafe' started by dan1952, Aug 24, 2019.

  1. Danny D

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    Such perfect words. A beautiful post!
     
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  2. DonM

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    Sorry to hear of your loss, but when there’s no quality of life you shouldn’t feel too bad when the curtain finally comes down. It’s nice to have all of those great memories.
     
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    I am sorry for your loss.
     
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    Sorry Dan. I was just remembering my own mom who passed away four years ago today. It sucks. My best wishes for you and your family.
     
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    Sincery condolences, this one is always hard and there is never an easy way to handle this, make sure you are not alone and be close to your family ,you need each other right now , make sure you are looking after yourself through out this, its too easy to neglect yourself right now

    thoughts are with you!
     
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    Sorry for your loss.
     
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    Condolences Dan! Sadly it is something that most of us have to go through except for those unfortunates who go first!

    DC
     
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    I feel so sorry for your loss, I lost my Mother exactly one year ago this morning. I feel your pain!
     
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    Sorry to hear about your loss. Condolences....
     
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  10. Deeve

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    Dan - like the others here, I stand with you. Moms are important.
    Peace - Deeve
     
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  11. dan1952

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    Yup. We sure were...
     
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    So, so sorry. The passing of mom is a hard one. Like you, after visiting very frequently, there's a hole in your schedule that is a constant reminder she is gone. I would find myself driving to see her or picking up the phone. So very sorry. Mine moved on over 20 years ago. I find myself still talking to her and thinking of her often. This is very hard, but with each day it will be more bearable. Make sure to take care of yourself and living your life. Stay occupied.
     
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    My condolences Dan. Sounds like you really loved her with all those visitations.
     
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    So sorry for your loss . She is taking care of you from above now , a mom always will
     
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    All my thoughts and prayers to you and the family Dan.

    :(
     
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    Dan, just by the way You describe Your Mom I think Your Family is Blessed.
    I don't believe in death anymore.
    These days I'm convinced that it's all about The Spirit and The Spirit lives on.
     
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    My condolences, really saddened to hear of your loss.
     
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    Condolences Dan.. she sounded like a lovely lady people from that generation are special
     
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    Very sorry for your loss.
     
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  20. dan1952

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    So true. One lady has been there over 6 years, with no visitors.
     
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