Ah. Diplomacy at its best! + There's something really critical, precious about being able to get a new member and take a guy at his word. I promise every new guy, I will do my darndest to see the positive things in what you're doing, and try my best to be your champion. But when people show up and give everyone a bad taste in their mouth; make them feel bad for offering the hand of hospitality, I just find that offensive. I just think it speaks volumes, that guys with a thousand posts or more are also not the ones with the tallest tales to tell. I wonder why that is.