I'm stuck again! Seems my old 3 way that I was going to use looks backwards(top lugs shifted left vs right)from the wiring diagram I'm trying to use. (Seems every diagram I see has the lugs shifted the other way.) Question 1.... Can I use this switch to follow this diagram? Question 2....Is my switch upside down? In the pics the switch is in bridge position. I know it should be easy, but I'm confused! Here's some pics from both sides and the wiring diagram I was hoping to follow.