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Discussion in 'Bad Dog Cafe' started by Bob M, Jan 27, 2021.
Faith is a very powerful thing, God bless you!
Ahhh... Been there done that. Pancreatic cancer. Watching your wife die is very very hard work.
You don't realise how hard until it is all over. Those months of running on adrenaline really take it out of you.
Feel free to spend a couple or three months feeling sorry for yourself and generally drinking too much and being a bad person.
After three months... despite everything you have to start putting yourself back together. Life goes on.
(not a god-botherer by the way)
Very sorry to hear the sad news. Praying...
So very sorry to hear of your wife. May God give you strength, comfort, courage, and healing. God bless.
So sorry to hear this. . . I can't imagine what you're both/all going through. . . God Bless
Thanks to you all for the kindness you’ve shown. One of the reasons I enjoy this forum is the human side of the members. The next few days will be challenging for our family and all the positive energy is appreciated.
Regards to all,
I’m very sorry to hear that.
So sorry for you and will pray for strength and peace for you all.
I am so deeply sorry. Sending positive vibes from the mid Atlantic.
I hope the knowledge that you’ll be together again one day brings you peace and strength.
Bob, sorry to hear you are going through this.
Bob, my thoughts go out to you. May you somehow find the strength to endure this.
I am very sorry.
I have been there, in other forms, but similar.
You can't do anything about it...but that's OK. Just let yourself feel whatever it is you are feeling. None of those feelings are wrong. Don't try to "be strong" or push your feelings down. They will come in out bad ways later, without you realizing it, if you don't allow them to hit you head on now. Just let yourself be hurt by it. It will be better for you in the long run.
Best of luck. My heart is with you. You life will never be the same from here forward...but that doesn't mean it will be bad in the end. Just different.
I'm sorry you and your wife are going through this. May peace be with you both.
I am so sorry.
I hope for peace and strength for you.
So sorry to hear this... Hoping you feel the well wishes of your forum friends to help in knowing that everyone is in this with you. God bless you and wifey.
I'm so sorry to read about your wife. it's a heatbreaking post. Glad to hear she is at peace. I hope you can find peace too.
I can’t imagine the darkness and anguish you must be experiencing right now. Especially with the virus and everything, it must be extremely difficult.
There is no way to properly process what is going on, but she will live on as real to you as the 47 years you have had with her after she is gone in your memories.
I’ve been with my wife for 17 years and she is also a woman of tremendous faith. I am trying to never take a moment for granted with her or my kids.
Hang in there. Blessings from central MA
I can't imagine this, even after only 30 years of marriage.
Stay strong and try to stay positive, or do whatever it takes to cope, i honestly wish you the best.
Positive vibes from California.