Well... I some of them YES, I rule. I rule in my Rock covers trio (I am starting to make original) In my real (old originals) quintet band we are equal but as I make most of the songs and I book the gigs I quite rule. In my acoustic duo I rule. In my Rockabilly band the upright player rules, in my garaje band the singer rules, in my jazz duo she rules... But all of them are "my band"
Now... rule... well... we are friends, we talk and we try to be keen on the the rest of the band, we buy beers each others and help as much as anybody can. But if somebody works more than the rest, deserves more voting ratio (so... he rules

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YES, you are right. Maybe I sound a little rude. Is not my intention, just a translation thing. English is not my mother tonge and sometimes this happens