Yeah, I hate it when the drums and bass overpower the group to the point where I can't hear any guitar nuance standing right in front of my amplifier.
Last night we performed at a "Blueswalk" event which had like 15 bands and solo and Duo stuff in a small town at various venues, including like the bakery, brewery, theatre, health club etc. One ticket to all venues.
Went to see someone we know across the street at a brewery when we were done. Man they were loud, louder than I've heard in a while, but the place was packed and and cheering etc, he was a good showman. Hard to tell how loud it was here as he's out messing with the crowd and the rhythm section has backed off, but he is maybe 25 feet from the stage here.
Sometimes I think I try too hard to not be a loud band and you end up in a funk because you can't get "the tonz", and if you are not having fun, it reflects to the crowd. Seems like I'm always the guy you cant hear well enough because I'm trying to pull back the drummer and bassist. Of course as soon as I crank it, it's always 'the guitarist' people complain about because the guitar frequencies are what gets to the ears!