Fluddman
Tele-Afflicted
This stirs up so many feelings and memories. The bottom line is I have played with IEMs for the last couple years and detest them. I might as well be playing by myself in a sound booth. The vibe and energy from the other band members is gone. I have no idea what I or the other band members sound like at any one time (yes, I know you can control your own mix). I used to play with a small amp and point it at myself and away from the audience. To the OP, I don't know what to say other than sound guys can do so much to help or hurt and they are pretty much in control once you get started. Good luck.
Hi Controller @Controller
I've tried IEMs and like 'em but we choose not to use them (except for our keyboard player) because of the isolation. We really interact with each other and the audience - can't do that using IEMs.
Hard to find good sound guys. Not much money in it.
Our guy is a decent bloke - so we'll work it out.
Cheers