You guys make me feel very fortunate when I hear your stories about your wimmens. I'm married 39 years and I can't imagine life any other way. I'm happily married cause she said so , just kidding. It takes two to make a marriage work, and it involves a lot of give and take. Sorry to hear about your problem Tater, sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on, remember, when one door closes another door opens.