Yeah this is sadly overlooked, but the flip side is that depression can show in personal grooming and health. So to grow the inside into a beacon of desirability, one may need to also take good care of the outside vessel. It’s a bit of a mystery as far as how that vessel should look, but I find it very useful to point out that no matter how we look, some will like it and some will not. I’ve said that often to friends suffering from the idea that there’s nobody out there for them. If we knew how many women out there have the same fears and just relaxed a little and allowed our goodness to be whatever it is, somebody will want that.