I will ask them what they would want and i buy a sandwich and a tall boy of beer if they ask for it. Otherwise i do answer them i am sorry i don't have any cash on me, but good luck with future things.
Just because they are asking for money doesn't mean you can politely answer them.
When it becomes a hassle. That is what happens when i played in this psychobilly band, there was a lot of turnover, and when you have got to explain songs for the 3rd or 4th time to newbies, and the singer not taking good care of his members, think sleeping 5 people with various addictions in a...
I think i am rhythm deaf. Can't play funk or syncopated music to save my life. The funny thing is that i took 2 years of classical guitar lessons, and the teacher never told me once i should play on time.