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Friend of Leo's
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: South Australia
Posts: 2,373
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I'm a minister as well as a musician. I love to play occasionally in worship, and go to the local progressive pub venue where i am welcome to play anything I like. We never ask our church musicians for exclusive contracts except an exclusive commitment to worship and weekly rehearsal times - anything beyond that spells CULT to me. The God I worship advocates freedom and trust.
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Toms River, NJ
Age: 43
Posts: 1,294
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The only "contract" should be the one that the musician makes with his Savior.
Sounds pretty scary to me. I serve on my church worship team and I also perform in a very active rock band, Tripleshift. My drummer and I started the group in order to get the Word outside the church walls and into places where people may not be down with opening a Bible or hearing a preacher. The music is what we call, "stealth" in that His message is in the lyrics, allowing people to get it on their own. Many have compared us to Creed. However I've probably got a good 50 pounds on Scott Stapp! Bottom line is that the contract sounds way to similar to "doctrine" and doctrine equates to "religion". IMHO, religion is defined as what I can do for God. I follow Christ because of what He has already done for me. God bless. Joe Faraldi |
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Tele-Meister
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Lubbock, TX
Age: 38
Posts: 199
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All spiritual aspects aside... From a purly business standpoint, an employer has the right to set the job requirements, terms and conditions of employment and the compensation for the job, the individual has the right to make the decision of whether or not those requirements, terms and compensation are acceptable.
With that in mind, this church is not doing anything different from lots of major companies that have exclusivity contracts. Some companies even stipulate that you cannot work for a competitor even after you leave for "x" amount of time. That being said, personally, I would probably not accept the terms as they are listed here, but would be interested in finding out the reasons for the restrictions. It might make a difference. |
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Newly Indiana
Posts: 1,762
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Not criticism, but clarification:
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Titus 2:1 I Timothy 4:16
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Tele-Meister
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Trenton, Ontario, Canada
Age: 42
Posts: 358
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Wow .... scary.
I thought churchs promoted an individuals freedoms with respect to God. I thought a person donated his time and talent to perform in a church band? Are you being paid? Maybe a contract would be in order then but for for free ... I'd consider another church. |
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Toms River, NJ
Age: 43
Posts: 1,294
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I agree, ravindave_3600. Just as in the Jewish faith, the rabbi (literal translation - "teacher") our pastors, priests, deacons, etc. should also serve in that role in order to provide a basis of teaching that is only from Scripture and nothing from the world. Fully agree.
I see the "church" as the body of Believers and the person or persons standing at the pulpit is simply a member of that body. My concern is that if that person, or really ANY person within the Body starts to misuse doctrine in order to place worldly requirements on one another, we then begin to start caring more about the created and not about the Creator. Romans 1:25 I guess that's what I was getting at in my post. (Man, I LOVE this forum!!!) Great to meet you, brother!! I appreciate the discussion. Joe Faraldi |
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Friend of Leo's
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: San Jose, CA
Age: 55
Posts: 3,068
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Just to keep things from going too far here. I do not have any detail beyond the simple statement my friend made, I haven't seen him in the week since OP. I will see him tonight and I will talk with him more about what he said. I have never heard of this from any church and that is why I asked this group.
He may have misunderstood what they are requiring and I'm sure I don't know enough details yet. |
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Toms River, NJ
Age: 43
Posts: 1,294
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Hey sax4blues,
I hear ya. Folks can get real passionate on this subject. ...and believe me, I HAVE seen this (and similar stuff) happen with some churches. Some pretty interesting stuff out there. Good original post to wake me up at work on a rainy day in Kansas. Peace, Joe Quote:
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#50 (permalink) |
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TDPRI Member
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Heartland
Posts: 57
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Don't post often, but this one hits close to home.
My wife and I have faith. It is a part of who we are that is carried where we go. You can't put labels, or limitations on that. I don't sit in at a blues jam and forsake that- faith is built on the insights that both mistakes and successes bring forth. My wife and I do take invitations to lead worship at different churches- and I mean different. Inner city and mixed racial backgrounds all the way to bleached white suburban extragavanzas. We do this because we perform where we want, and do what we want. We're big boys and girls, and we travel in faith. This attitude of church stipulations can get ugly, as many of you have already testified to. I've been guilty of the Merc thing on a rare occaision, and I don't like it. Sometimes I've taken gigs when the church knew I couldn't stay through the service. It's not a habit. One church, however, went far beyond the call. A previous poster mentioned "getting reports about conflicting behaviors"... Two weeks after Christianity Today gave our album, a blue-rock all originals affair, 4 out of 5 stars, the church we rented our house from said that they got reports that we played in blues bars, and other places, and were no longer welcome to play in their church. Christianity Today, one of the world's best-selling Christian magazines, wrote a glowing review and praised the heart of what we were doing- "light in dark place"- while the church completely ignored it's sole purpose in existance. Needless to say, my faith remains intact, and that church has crumbled under it's leadership. I've seen it time and again. My $.02. Much love and peace to all the fellow TDPRI-er's for this great board. BTW- Whiskeyneck is the name of a Sixty Watt Shaman song, not a social endeavor, so keep that in respect when posting about the faithfullness of someone who posts about church matters under such a name. The song is about witchhunts, if I remember correctly... |
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Toms River, NJ
Age: 43
Posts: 1,294
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Yep, we've lost invitations to play at some church functions because we also play in bars and such.
Peace, Joe Quote:
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Peoria, AZ
Posts: 1,614
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Hey, it's their praise band, and even if I don't get the requirement (which I personally don't) if he decides to play with them, it is what he will have to do. Probably, I would not. But then my church doesn't look at things that way.
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Friend of Leo's
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: San Jose, CA
Age: 55
Posts: 3,068
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Talked with my friend tonight and this is what I learned.
This church views playing in the band as a leadership position and don't want the worship leaders singing Highway to Hell Saturday night and leading worship on Sunday morning. I personally believe an all or nothing contract is extreme, there is plenty of secular music with lyrics that are not detrimental to christian faith. I would not engage in this form of legalism and I worry what else is forbidden. But this is his choice, he does not need to play in this church band and they don't make him stop his other music to be a church member and worship there. |
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Newly Indiana
Posts: 1,762
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S4B, thanks for getting back to us on this, telling "the rest of the story". I can understand their point and agree with you, too. Did he tell you what he's decided to do?
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Tele-Meister
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Trenton, Ontario, Canada
Age: 42
Posts: 358
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Nope .... just walk away .... remindes me of the episode of WKRP on censorship.
Jesus walked with thieves and the sick ... come to think of it the "church" censored him too.... |
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Ahh
They have their positions we have ours. Its all good. I don't think they are wrong in what they want and I don't think we would be wrong to reject that. There is a good amount of Liberty in Christ. Each local body is free to reflect this in different ways. I am often reminded of the story that Dr. J Vernon McGee told of his move to California from Texas.
The Californians were scandalized by the fact that he smoked cigarettes. But to him it was normal everyone in TX where he was from smoked. He in turn was scandalized by the fact the men and women went to the beach together. That was taboo in TX. Neither had anything to do with salvation but each was something the local bodies had adopted as reflective of their walk with Christ. This church has its standards, I won't knock them but won't imitate them either.
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Tele-Holic
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Mokena, IL
Posts: 791
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This is not legalism, it is just the rules that this assembly has defined for those who choose to join the worship team. Legalism would be requiring some form of external behaviour to be essential for salvation, certainly not what this church sounds like it is doing. If you don't like it, then that's fine and go find somewhere else to worship. Be free in Christ, not entangled with unimportant issues. (Good to see you Peter!)
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Tele-Afflicted
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Just like the Pharisees only saw that Jesus broke all sorts of their rules about propriety, like being around prostitutes and known collaborators (tax collectors), and doing various things they considered work on the Sabbath. In other words, Jesus Himself would not have been welcome as a leader in that church. Sad when substance is trumped by formality.
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Tele-Afflicted
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Peoria, AZ
Posts: 1,614
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Again, it is their church, their P&W team and they get to set the rules. As I stated in an earlier post, I would probably not sign the contract, but that is a personal decision by the friend of the OP, hopefully aided by prayer. |
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