I did a butterscotch blonde with mixol in waterbased lacquer on my "d-oh" thread, and i think a separate recipe thread for the finish. Here and at targetcoatings.com (there's a recipes section and a luthier's section in the forum there).
Of course you have to decide whether you want an almost white color, an amber yellow, or something with a little salmon-pink in it.
My guideline was one of Ron Kirn's threads where he uses regular lacquer, a bit of white, a dash of amber, drop of brown, and voila. He makes it look easy. It almost is.
"Why don't you just make 10 louder, and make 10 be the top number, and make that a little louder?"