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Dave Hopping · November 16th, 2007, 12:56 AM

Sounds like the professional you need is gonna be the legal type.Make sure the one you have likes to beat the opposition senseless.The reason you want the lion's share of everything is that if you get it you'll give it to the kids.If she gets the lion's share of everything she'll give it to her boyfriend.
You'll REALLY want joint custody.It gives you more legal authority to act in your kids' best interest,because she won't,and your kids will desparately need as much strength,legal and otherwise,as you can bring to bear on their behalf.
The approach you must take is one of obdurate,uncompromising intransigence.You can make nice later-after you win.
PS This'll really sound mean-spirited,but it works.Have your lawyer insist on paternity tests right up front.If there's a problem with any of the kids you need to know it.If it comes back clean,you're still ahead because the other party still looks bad.

November 16th, 2007, 12:56 AM	#128 (permalink)
Dave Hopping Tele-Afflicted Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Aurora,Colorado Posts: 1,436	Sounds like the professional you need is gonna be the legal type.Make sure the one you have likes to beat the opposition senseless.The reason you want the lion's share of everything is that if you get it you'll give it to the kids.If she gets the lion's share of everything she'll give it to her boyfriend. You'll REALLY want joint custody.It gives you more legal authority to act in your kids' best interest,because she won't,and your kids will desparately need as much strength,legal and otherwise,as you can bring to bear on their behalf. The approach you must take is one of obdurate,uncompromising intransigence.You can make nice later-after you win. PS This'll really sound mean-spirited,but it works.Have your lawyer insist on paternity tests right up front.If there's a problem with any of the kids you need to know it.If it comes back clean,you're still ahead because the other party still looks bad. Last edited by Dave Hopping; November 16th, 2007 at 01:54 AM.