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i'm another one for the counseling. i've got two little ones with my ole lady and things have been rough lately, which is especially hard around the holidays. she's always given me a hard time about all my teles, two of which were presents from my dad from before i could even lift them.
coincidentally enough, we started couples therapy last monday, and after only one two hour long hash-out, things have drastically improved. no more yelling and pointless arguments. i've always been one to scoff at therapy, but i can't even put into words how differently i feel. it's really fresh in my situation, but just the fact that we're both there on that couch and willing to put forth our mutual efforts towards either working it out or moving apart, whichever we decide TOGETHER, speaks volumes for the "adults" that we're supposed to be.
anyway, all the best to you. but, i guess my biggest piece of advice is, don't let anyone make you compromise yourself or who you are and what you love.
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