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Old May 16th, 2012, 09:07 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by markesquire View Post
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You asked a serious question, so here's a serious answer (this is not a religious post in any way).

Go to a church. Talk to the pastor. Explain that you are at the end of your rope, have a temporary situation where you need housing and don't have other options, that you're trying to do the right thing for your marriage, that you're willing to earn your keep, and that you're a bit afraid for your safety regarding some of your other alternatives. By talking to a single pastor, you may avail yourself of lots of people/families in his/her church that might have some extra space, know of jobs, or who would be willing to help in some other way. Again, not a religious post, but a pragmatic way to maximize your exposure to opportunities with an audience that "should" be eager to help you with a solution.
I agree this is the best solution for you. You would be surprised at how many people might help you out. Give it a shot.
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