i have the vox ac4 And two Epi valve jnr's 1 10" combo and one 12" cab and head.
For your reference, NONE are quiet when you hit the sweet spot. Not quite loud enough to be in a band but VERY close.....so prettty loud (my wife lets me crank them often fortunately!)
I love the vox for mild to dirty (it has NO useable clean)
I love the epi cab for semi clean and marshal raunch when cranked.
No reverb at bedroom level is a pain for me.....
Bugera looks very tempting to me. Pathfinder 15r also gets good reviews and being SS might be more manageable at medium volume.
But 5w tube are surprisingly loud.