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Just found this site and read almost everything since the beginning. Wish I would have found it earlier, some of you post would have been very helpful.

I do have a issue about dedication. The worship team I play with is small as is the church but that doesn't matter. The issue is dedication of members on the team. A couple of us are dedicated (one being the leader)showing up to every practice and service however some are not and show up when moved. It has been frustrating as I play both guitar and drums and do not know from on week to the next what I will play. The leader and I have discussed it but nothing was done. I took the lead once to confront a member once and it worked but only for a short time. It wouldn't be as bad if they would give notice they weren't going to show but they don't.

I have prayed about this and thus far am learning the lesson of patience. Recently I signed up for program to send reminders/schedule and confirmation to everyone hoping that it will motivate them but honestly I don't think it will matter. I'm asking if anyone else has experienced this in anyway, and has worked through it. Is been going on a long time and I getting the the point of dropping out.

again this site is great wish I would have found it awhile ago.