[stantheman]

I think I've got a feeling on what the guy's going through
emotionally....he's got to walk away from the situation with no looking back; he still has his freedom which is the most precious thing besides good health that there is, some time ago I got raked over the coals
for about 65K and believe me all kinds of thoughts were going through my head BUT I kept my focus and remembered the old Blues mantra "that trouble don't last always" and remember this one also "time wounds
all heals".
In the cold light of morning these are only material things
and though they were cherished to be sure they're replaceable; and one other thing to always consider is
that we're only hearing his side of the story, I've seen a
lot of women in my day who were nothing more than
punching bags for abusive husbands.
But when all is said and done....just walking away from it
is the smart thing to do....I saw the ex who raked me a
couple of months ago and believe me everybody walking
away from the situation was the best advice I ever followed and I'm in a much better place today spiritually and emotionally. Frankly it was worth taking the loss just to be rid of The Blues.