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Is there an open, honest dialog with your pastor about what is going on? I would have to think you've already tried (or are trying) that, so I don't mean to imply that I think you're not communicating ... quite the opposite ... but, is your pastor really listening to you? It sounds like he is truly not, and what's worse, that he's actually openly hostile toward you. I don't get that. Maybe he's the "handicapped" one.
If it can't be made better, you might need to make some tough decisions, but I would certainly hope that you and your entire team are really straightforward and clear with him about everything. Pastors are people, too, and maybe in this case he's the one who needs ministering, from you. I'm just saying ...
-jm
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