[Ptrallan01]

Sounds like home! I've been through a very similar thing in a small church. Wanted to quit, had another place picked out, prayed about it and stayed. Still here 12 years later.

Don't quit until you see what comes with the new leader. The rest of the church seems to fit you and your family. Give your wife my prayers and wait. It will become obvious which direction to go when you see how the new situation shakes out.

Often we go through theses situations so that when someone else goes through them we can help them with our experience.

Hope it all works out for you.