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You can't honestly expect to get a good set of answers from a bunch of guitar players who are forbidden to speak openly about this topic, can you? The open discussion you need to make a wise decision can't happen here. It seems this is an important issue to you and you want to do what's right for your child. It deserves some serious face to face with people who can openly give you their honest opinions and feelings. Go talk to some church leaders or pastors. Talk to others that think like you. Talk to others who don't think like you do....you get the idea. Just make sure you do this with an open mind. Some people are sincere about their faith for a reason.