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I don't "hide" anything from her, with the agreement that she treats me the same way. We have a $50 go-ahead rule, but over $50 we call each other to make sure it's cool. It also helps to weed out the impulse buys. When I wonder if it's worth the lobbying to get it passed by the wife, sometimes I realize I really don't care enough about it to spend the money on. Same with her, too. I like $500 guitars, she like $300 purses and $150 shoes, so we could both do some damage without checks and balances. If you can't trust each other about a $100 pair of shoes or a $100 Squier Bullet, that's sowing seeds of more lies about much more important things...
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