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Another +1 on counseling... you're going to need it...
Have a wife AND an ex... both understood from the first note that music was a huge part of my life, and always will be, and to try to take that away from me were grounds to end the relationship. Fortunately, neither has ever pushed that issue (the ex departed after a long and acrimonious dispute on her laziness, but that's another story). We've had to pawn guitars and amps over the years when money was tight, but we never lost anything (well, one amp-didn't like it anyways!) but NEVER did they tell me I had to sell a guitar, and I have one that's a gift from my father (my main telly, in fact) and another that's a gift from my wife (a Fernandes Lawsuit Strat). Now my wife limits how many guitars I can have, so it's always upgrade time when I want another guitar.
I just can't wrap my mind around someone demanding that their SO part with a gift from a relative-as pointed out, this wasn't rent money gone awry here, so it's a symptom of something far more dark and severe. 69 Telecaster, I feel for you, this is a bad place to be for anyone right now, hopefully you'll get through this intact. Remember the sun will rise tomorrow... be there to see it...
Franc Robert
Back Alley Blues Band
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